The ball gag, a staple in the world of BDSM, has a rich history that dates back to the Victorian era, where it was used as a tool for both punishment and pleasure. Its design, featuring a ball placed in the wearer’s mouth, is intended to restrict speech and create a sense of vulnerability, enhancing the power dynamic between partners. Despite its controversial nature, the ball gag remains a popular choice for those exploring the boundaries of consent and control within their intimate relationships.

What exactly is a ball gag?

A ball gag is one of the most recognizable forms of gags, typically comprising a rubber ball inserted behind the teeth. It is secured with a strap fastened behind the head, preventing it from being spit out or pushed out by the tongue. Although the gagged individual can make sounds, their ability to articulate is severely restricted. The size of the ball determines how wide the mouth must be opened, making speech even more difficult.

Compared to other gags like ring gags or mouth spreaders, ball gags are generally less uncomfortable and brutal, making them a great option for beginners or those exploring soft BDSM.

What is a ball gag used for?

Beyond silencing the wearer, a ball gag enhances feelings of surrender and humiliation. One of its most notable effects, highly sought after by many, is increased salivation and difficulty swallowing, leading to drooling. This effect can be amplified by moistening the ball gag with lemon juice or food-grade ginger spray, which also induces a mild burning sensation in the mouth.

To heighten the humiliation factor, common additional tasks include reciting poems while gagged or discreetly wearing the gag in public, such as under a thick scarf or mask.

What precautions should be taken when using a ball gag?

As with any BDSM activity, safety is paramount when using a ball gag. The gagged person must never be left unattended and should be able to breathe easily through their nose. Proper airflow is crucial to avoid choking on saliva. If the wearer panics or experiences difficulty breathing, the gag should be removable immediately. Instead of a safe word, a predetermined non-verbal signal, such as dropping an object, should be used.

The strap, typically made of leather or rubber, keeps the ball securely in place. For beginners, it’s advisable to use a snug but stretchy band rather than a tight strap. Individuals with certain health conditions such as diabetes, heart or lung problems, seizures, hyperventilation, or claustrophobia should avoid using ball gags. Additionally, using a gag while under the influence of strong medication, drugs, or alcohol is discouraged.

Before and after each use, clean the ball gag with soap or dishwashing detergent and water. Dry thoroughly, and treat any leather straps or connectors with a neutral care product like Vaseline.

What factors should be considered when purchasing a ball gag?

Ball gags come in various materials, each with different features. Plastic gags are durable and easy to clean, while natural rubber offers a softer, more comfortable feel, especially for extended use.

Silicone ball gags, like those offered by Latexy, are hypoallergenic, tasteless, and skin-friendly. They resemble rubber balls but lack potential allergens like plasticizers. Wooden or metal gags, although less common, can cause discomfort due to their hardness and the risk of harming teeth.

Some ball gags feature breathing holes for easier mouth breathing. It’s important to ensure that all straps and connectors are sturdy, with no sharp edges. Metallic components should be made from stainless steel and preferably be nickel-free.

Ball gag sizes to consider:

• 38 mm: Ideal for beginners or those with smaller mouths.
• 40 mm: A standard size, suitable for most users.
• 52 mm: A larger standard size, fitting many users comfortably.
• 55 mm: Larger, recommended for more experienced individuals.
• 60 mm: Quite large, suitable for advanced users.
• 70 mm: As big as a tennis ball, very challenging but manageable for some.

Sex toy stores, such as Latexy, offer interchangeable gag balls in various sizes to fit different preferences and levels of experience.